Getting Divorced
Getting divorced, separating, thinking about getting a divorce, separation, based on suspicion, accusations, behaviour. Well, getting divorced, separating, dividing assets and care of children, is expensive and painful. Get evidence, confirm suspicions, verify facts, before you do.
A private investigation is about evidence gathering, phone 1300 966 103, email us at [email protected], or 24/7 online Contact Us. A private investigation is the first step, gathering evidence, it may prepare you for divorce, and Family law actions.
A divorce involves separating, a period of separation, court action, and claims and counter claims, over the settlement and custody of children, access to children. It is damaging to the children, and your 'self'. The suspicion my husband is cheating, that my wife is cheating, that my partner is cheating, that they are having an affair, or affairs, is corrosive. This suspicion alone, even if unconfirmed, can destroy the relationship.
Accusations fly, peoples attitudes and behaviours change, the relationship breaks down. It is better to confirm or deny that suspicion, to verify the facts, than to let a relationship be destroyed by mistrust. A private investigator isn't cheap, but it is FAR cheaper than a broken marriage, or relationship. getting a divorce, based on suspicion, not facts, means throwing out good things, based on bad information.
We are experienced, and discreet. You may not have had to investigate suspicion, verify facts, or gather evidence before getting a divorce, but we have conducted relationship investigations, and gathered evidence, discreetly, for many years.
Honesty in a relationship is hard, especially where you have been burnt before. For some the affair is only about adventure, about sex. Infidelity is a bases for divorce, but it doesn't have to be. There are times when a truthful, non-aggressive, discussion, can let you move forward. The first thing you need is facts. The role of the private investigator, private detective, is to gather these facts, the evidence. This is usually private investigator surveillance, private detective surveillance.
Before you separate from your partner, before the suspicion, the accusations, and arguments destroy the relationship, spend the money to confirm or deny that suspicion, to verify those facts, to gather evidence. If it is confirmed it then becomes hard for the evidence to be deflected; this lets you consider your position, and either repair things, or make plans for your future.
Do this before separating, a separation, taking a break from each other. If the suspicion isn't confirmed, and they are telling the truth, this also allows you to adjust your behaviour, and repair the relationship. They may leave you because of accusations, you may leave them because of suspicion, separating, a separation, is not moving forward, it is moving apart. Do not disclose your use of a private investigator to anyone, before you are ready. A secret shared is a secret lost.
Using a private investigator, a private detective, to investigate your relationship is a positive step, a positive action. It means you are taking some control, and making decisions about your life. These are decisions only you can make, no-one else can tell you what is right and wrong in these cases (but they can tell you what is illegal). Using a licensed private investigator, private detective, is legal. Private investigator surveillance is legal. We are licensed to investigate, to gather private information, and conduct surveillance.
When you suspect an affair, suspect infidelity, suspect adultery, before you make accusations, before you destroy a relationship, gather evidence, confirm or deny a suspicion, verify facts. Getting a divorce, separating, is expensive, and will set you back years financially. A separation, a divorce, can damage children, and multiple relationships, sometimes it can isolate you. When you have suspicions, when you are considering a separation, getting a divorce, take control and gather evidence, use a private investigator. Getting divorced is permanent.
If you do progress to divorce, division of assets, and child custody matters, become the biggest concerns. Places where assets are hidden include cash (the person starts making withdrawals at a casino, and claims to have lost the money), gambling accounts online, gold, silver, or precious metals, share market accounts, banks accounts at different banks, bank accounts in business names, and into crypto (cold, or hot, wallets) which enables it to be moved around the world. These can be hard to search for in Australia, as the politicians decided everything shall be hidden, with the Privacy Act, assisting the criminals.