Is My Wife Cheating? Having An Affair?
Is my wife having an affair? Is my wife cheating? These questions are corrosive. To investigate and confirm or deny that suspicion, to gather evidence, proof, use a discreet, licensed, private investigator, private detective; phone 1300 966 103, TEXT ONLY to 0427 703 120, email us at [email protected] or use our online form Contact Us, free quotes. You suspect, we investigate, discreetly.
Now, the first thing if you are considering going down this path of investigating your wife, is security. You never threaten to get a private investigator, and you need to stop accusing your wife of having an affair, cheating, infidelity, to lower her guard.
You do need to set up a new, free, email account to communicate with the private investigator, at the very least change your password.
Do not use something that has your name in it for the email address, if creating a new one, use an abstract description like 'smelltheroses@' or something. You should also make sure that the paid anti-virus, anti everything, you are using is a good one, and up to date, and remember to update and run a full scan! If phoning use a secure phone, from a secure location. When you suspect an affair, suspect cheating, suspect infidelity, a workplace affair, use a private investigator.
Generally, private investigator surveillance is the method of choice for investigating a suspected affair, cheating, infidelity, in Australia. Installing spyware on someone else's phone is illegal, we cannot hack into their Facebook or email (and if someone offers this service, run), nor look at their bank account details. Vehicle registration checks, unless involved in a traffic accident, and able to produce a traffic accident number, are also unavailable, although there are methods to confirm the registration in some cases. We use lawful means to investigate suspicion, to gather the evidence, proof, of what is occurring; we have over 30 years experience in investigation.
Private investigator surveillance, is legal, when done correctly. The evidence obtained can be used for court. In some countries evidence of adultery is still required, to grant a divorce. Now, there must be some basis to your suspicion, to raise the question, is my wife cheating? Is my wife having an affair? Is my wife having an affair at work? Is my wife cheating on me? Is my wife having a workplace romance? These are serious questions, indicating trust issues, suspicion, which is corrosive to a relationship. It may be they start looking up websites about adultery, or someone tells you your partner having a 'fling', that you need to investigate an affair.
We need you to document the things that are causing the suspicion, times, dates, statements or comments, this is the area of relationship infidelity investigation, we need to confirm or deny those suspicions, to gather evidence, proof. It may be becoming possessive of their phone, the discovery of a second mobile phone, a lot of cleared texts, a lot of cash transactions, a telephone history of sending and receiving photographs or videos.
Something found on a computer, something deleted off a computer, a cleared history, staying out late at night, unexplained absences during the day, an anonymous tip off. We need to know the persons habits of the subject, as you know them. It is preferable that we don't park right outside their best friends house, or follow them into the dead end street where they park to go to work, a good briefing helps us avoid that.
Basically the better briefed our private investigator surveillance operatives are the higher the likelihood of achieving the evidence gathering, the proof, the outcome, you are paying for. A private investigator surveillance operative is a deniable asset, meaning if you are questioned by your wife you don't have to admit that you hired an investigator, until you are ready.
We rely on the subject remaining unaware, when conducting surveillance, the client can assist by not changing their behaviour, and not launching accusations, whilst we are working. You suspect, we investigate, we are experienced, and discreet; our investigators include ex-Police.
Starting a diary is a good thing, it is a way to record events, and can later be used to refer to. Sometimes confirmation of an affair, cheating, infidelity can lead to divorce, sometimes it is a relief to have the cheating confirmed because knowing is better than suspicion eating into you, it lets you make decisions.
When you suspect, when you need to investigate that suspicion, when you want to find the truth, when you know, but need to prove it, you need a private investigator, a private detective, to investigate for you. A private investigation can give the surety required to make your decisions.
A suspicion is not evidence, often the client is seeking to prove or disprove a suspicion, establish the facts, to find out what is really going on. As private investigators we are there to assist in gathering the evidence, to show the who, what, when, where of the matter.
An accusation of an affair, cheating, infidelity, may often result in a defence of 'prove it', or simply a denial; it may be that they are going away somewhere 'for work', and it makes no sense. If you need to 'prove' that the affair, the cheating, the infidelity is occurring, the first thing to do is stop accusing your wife of this. Let things settle, let her resume her activity. Contact a private investigator, a private detective, and commence your investigation, to prove what is going on.
When you suspect an affair, cheating, infidelity, and are starting to take action to confirm or deny your suspicions, there are a number of other considerations. If you may separate, or divorce, finances need to be considered, as do assets.
We do conduct divorce property settlement preparation, and the best way to assist yourself is to have copies of everything, including person accounts, business accounts, and assets before anything happens. It is possible for everything to change very quickly, once an affair, cheating, is confirmed, and you confront them with the evidence.
If there is violence involved you need to go to the police, NOW. Domestic violence can be a two way street, if your wife is violent, or plays mind games, document it, if possible record it, and go to the police. Coercive control is something many women are good at. Domestic violence against men is also illegal, and she may be intended to provoke a response so, given the bias of police, courts, and media, you are the one before the court.
On the point of violence, avoid all illegal actions that may make you feel good now, but lead to bad outcomes down the road. A criminal conviction, or domestic violence order against you, may hinder child custody or access, accommodation access, and divorce property settlement actions, or other court actions.
Using a private investigator,a private detective, gives distance between you and the investigation. Use that distance to prepare yourself for the possible outcome. Call us when you are ready to proceed, for a free quote.
When you need a private investigator, a private detective, to investigate an affair we are a cheating partner investigator service. We discreetly investigate for you, gathering evidence.
Our investigation services include discreet investigation of an affair, infidelity, cheating; we investigate suspicion, where you suspect a cheating wife, an affair, infidelity, adultery, as a relationship investigation, discretion assured.